This blog is for the woman who feels sad, anxious, furious, and maybe even depressed. The process you go through is a very complicated one. I, too, felt like I was stuck in a rollercoaster of emotions that never seemed to come to a stop. 

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 My vocation has always been to help.

It surprised me big time when I realized that the most challenging task I have in life is to accompany what became the source of my deepest pain and my most significant growth.

Being married to a gay man caused me a lot of distress and suffering—the lack of information, the fear of seeking help, the denial of trusting my intuition.

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Pushing away my inner voice for over 25 years and taking on the victim´s role was done with ease. I took on that role so well that I might as well have gotten an Academy Award. 

All of the above made this process more complicated, sadder, and just life-consuming.